When our granddaughter Sarah shared her wedding plans, my husband Jim and I were overjoyed and eager to help make her day special. But that excitement quickly turned to heartbreak when we received a letter from Sarah requesting $5,000 for a vacation with her fiancé. Along with the demand came a cruel note: “I hope you saved enough after years of giving me cheap, trash gifts.”

Her words were a painful blow, especially considering the years we spent supporting her—through handmade quilts, heirloom jewelry, and help with her college and car expenses. Heartbroken, Jim and I decided we could no longer ignore her ingratitude.

We gathered the gifts we’d given her, donated them to those in need, and withdrew our financial support for her wedding. Along with these actions, we wrote Sarah a heartfelt letter explaining that love isn’t about material things but about gratitude and respect.

Though Sarah and some family members were upset, we stand by our decision, hoping it teaches her a valuable lesson about maturity and appreciation. Sometimes, love means taking a stand for what’s right.