A 24-year-old mother of two sets of twins sought advice on Reddit after leaving her husband and four children alone for the weekend without prior notice. She explained that she managed both her work-from-home job and caring for her five-year-old boys and three-year-old girls, yet her 27-year-old husband often criticized her for not keeping the house immaculate or cooking elaborate meals. He believed her responsibilities were easier than his physically demanding job.
Frustrated, she left a note on his phone one night, informing him she was going out with friends. He called, yelling, but her friends urged her to mute the phone. The next morning, he packed his bags and went to his mother’s house, texting her about his decision.
While many commenters supported her need for a break, some cautioned against leaving the children with an incapable caregiver. Others encouraged her to reconsider a relationship where her efforts were undervalued.
